What To Do If Your Loved Ones Aren’t Taking COVID-19 Seriously
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Today we’re going to share some info on what to do if your loved ones aren’t taking COVID-19 seriously:
Listen, living through a pandemic is already challenging, but when your parents insist on going on about life like everything is fine, or your friends keep throwing “stay at home parties”, or your grandma is too proud to let anyone else do things for her, it adds a level of frustration that seems unnecessary.
Here are some ways to have a convo that might help them take things more seriously:
Don’t come at them with judgement, just concern and kindness. Use “I” language. Ex: “I am worried for your health /I would feel less anxious if you stayed home”. Let them know this situation SUCKS and that it’s hard for you too. Don’t make them feel stupid.
“But I feel Just Fine!” Gently remind them that this is not about them. Remind them that they can spread the virus even if they don't experience symptoms themselves. It helps to quantify facts with real stories and provide examples of the people you could be protecting by staying home.
Don’t use commands starting with words like “Stop” or “Don’t”. Try asking them to do something else. Instead of saying “Don’t panic buy” try “Have you considered donating some food to local food banks or neighbors?”
It is not an enemy that we need to “show who is boss”. Going about life as normal is exactly what is going to help the virus thrive and infect more people. Remind them that by staying inside and
Messaging has been pretty inconsistent. Depending on where they get their info their feelings about it could vary. Consider sending them articles or information from sources they do take seriously.
Social Distancing vs Self Isolation. Social distancing does not mean you invite your friends over for a party and distance yourself from the public. It means limited social interactions, staying home with those you are already with, and going out when necessary. (Depends on your work/ if you are able) Self Isolation means you are staying in your home quarantined and having no contact with the outside world.
Awkward conversations are hard but necessary to keep loved ones safe.